The Distance Between Us

Greetings, dear friends! Behind the scenes, I have been working furiously on the last of the memoir revisions. And they are done! More on this shortly. Meanwhile, it’s time again for Memoir Across The Pond with Charli Mills at Carrot Ranch. A personal reflection on 9/11, twenty years on. Keep safe, keep well, dear ones. Sherri ❤

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Twenty years ago this Friday, I went out for a meal to celebrate my birthday with my family. My eighteen year old had graduated from high school that spring and was looking forward to starting college. My two other children had just started their new school year in 4th and 7th Grade.

We enjoyed a light-hearted and happy evening together.

The next morning the phone rang early. My default was oh no. A thud of dread. When you live in California and your relatives are in England, that ring at that hour will do that.

It was my mother-in-law calling from Los Angeles, panic high her voice.

‘Have you heard the news?’


‘Put CNN on, a plane’s crashed into the World Trade Centre.’

A what?Where? I’m not a morning person. Her words jumbled around my foggy brain.

It was a school morning, but with time…

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About Sherri Matthews

Sherri is a writer with work published in print magazines, anthologies and online. As a young British mum of three, she emigrated to California and stayed for twenty years. Today she lives in England's West Country, a full-time carer within her family. Her current WIP after completing her memoir is a psychological thriller.
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26 Responses to The Distance Between Us

  1. MikeM says:

    Profound piece.

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  2. Congratulations on finishing up revisions, Sherri! 🎉🎉🎉 Will check out the post.

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  3. Prior... says:

    hello my awesome friend!
    so nice to see your post and congrats on the revisions
    – and wishing you a great week ahead – sending hugs 🙏☀️💛💛💛💛

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  4. Mabel Kwong says:

    It is so lovely to see you again Sherri, and I am glad that I can pop by this time. Congratulations on the memoir. Sounds like you worked hard and the finish line is near. All the best with it and it will be worth it 😊 I read your post over at Carrot Ranch. Very thoughtful reflection on how our lives can change in an instant and we learn to be thankful for what and who we have in our lives. Hope you are doing well over there, and keep shining in your summer house 💛

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    • HI Mabel, how lovely to hear from you! I have been long absent from blogging, thank you for your lovely encouragement as always and for reading over at Carrot Ranch. Yes it is hard to believe 20 years since then…but hard lessons, even now. I look forward to reconnecting here very soon with a memoir update, and meanwhile, I hope you are keeping safe and well and happy in your endeavours 🙂 ❤


  5. purpleslob says:

    I’ll never forget where I was; break room at work, eating lunch. No one else finished their lunch either. It was terrifying, and world shattering.

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  6. Genny Nau says:

    Happy Birthday Sherri! Hope your day was special! Love and miss you! Hugs, Genny

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  7. dgkaye says:

    Thrilled to hear about your memoir coming closer to publishing Sher! Thanks for this profound share ❤

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  8. Ste J says:

    Hello! I am again late to the party but really excited for your memoir, I’m not sure if I told you that I had moved email address as the other one got all hacked, I may have done so but I can’t remember so if I haven’t replied to any emails that you sent, it wasn’t me being ignornant, honest!

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    • Hello my friend, how great to find you here again! And I am way late, I apologise profusely. If you’re late to the party, then what excuse do I have?! I haven’t blogged for some time, just now trying to wrap up for the end of the year. I have been working on my submission package for my memoir, but also have been without a kitchen for 6 weeks due to some major renovation work. So sorry about getting hacked, I don’t know your new email address. Ping me one when you can, if you want. We lost touch a while ago, so it’s great to connect again here. Would love to hear all your latest and family news. Hope you and your family are all safe and well. I am so out of the loop here…but hope to correct that in the new year. Thanks so much for coming by to say Hi! Happy Christmas!


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